Many of us for many
years have been involved with the placing ex-racing greyhounds into loving
homes. Every year people looking to adopt a pet choose ex-racing greyhounds and
every year the ranks of adoption volunteers grows. As a whole, greyhound adoption
will be perceived not by how many greyhounds we place, but on whom we follow
and who we allow to be present, admired or supported in our family friendly
greyhound community. What we do, what we have done, what we allow lays the
groundwork for what the next generation of greyhound lovers accept as gospel. An
oft quoted phraseology "My goal in life is to be as good of a person
as my dog already thinks I am" is tempered with another – “Don’t
accept your dog’s admiration as conclusive evidence that you are wonderful”.
Does an individual's
involvement with greyhounds or greyhound adoption make the unacceptable
acceptable?
Let's say a sports
figure who was involved in dog fighting became involved with greyhound adoption.
Would the greyhound community put their blinders on and welcome this person
with open arms? If some point in the future, say 25 or 30 years, a person who
was convicted of animal abuse and or animal assault adopts a greyhound, will
the greyhound community toss its collective hands in the air and with a shake
of the head claim it is not an issue as the crime that a conviction resulted
from happened so long ago? Or even worse, a nonchalant "hey it wasn't MY
dog so I don't care"?
Yet there are members of
the here & now greyhound community sending a distressing message to the
world at large - don't abuse animals, but if you molest children it's no big
deal.
What other explanation
can there be for a convicted child molester who currently has lifetime sex
offender registration to be admired and supported and embraced by those in the
greyhound community?
This individual's presence
leaves a bad impression on the greyhound community, especially as more and more
families (and by that I mean with children ranging in age from newborn to 18)
are welcoming greyhounds into their homes. Registering, attending,
vending at any event that is associated in any way with such an individual
gives credence to the community that we as a whole could care less about
children, women and victims of sexual assault and only care about the
greyhounds. Continuing on in such a way in our community may well have a
negative impact on the greyhounds.
Some may say this is political mudslinging. I call shenanigans on that. It is simply about good judgement and what is in the best interest not only for our greyhounds but for the humans that share their lives with greyhounds.
I get contacted almost daily from victims in our community. If you
think it is ok to continue to support a convicted child molester with lifetime
sex offender by registration, attending, vending or paying registration fees
(whether you attend or not) at one of this individual's events, think about
this - you have most likely offended a dear friend or adoption associate in the
greyhound community by showing support for a child molester and opened up very traumatic
wounds or triggered flashbacks with your declarations of an event that happened
years ago is not important today.
Tomorrow I will share an
open letter from an individual who is a victim of sexual assault that was
posted on social media a few weeks ago. I was granted permission to share it
and feel it is too important, too powerful and extremely insightful not to
stand on its own. The pain sexual assault victims go through each and every day
should be more than enough to make us all say – No more! I will not register,
attend functions nor vend at any event sponsored by or coordinated by an
individual who has lifetime sex offender registration resulting from a
conviction of first degree sexual molestation of innocent children.
The character of our
adoption programs, our events, and our vendors reflects on the whole. If just
one member continues to support a person who has a requirement to register for
life as a sex offender due to the sexual assault of children it will negatively
impact our community thus impacting the greyhounds.
Some profess the mantra “it's all about the greyhounds” but for some who hide behind that phrase, it is not about the greyhounds at all.
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